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Cruising Confessions: That's So Degrading!

Queer people grow up experiencing bullying at a higher rate than that of our peers. Could that be why some of us find ourselves turned on by consensual domination, degradation...

Queer people grow up experiencing bullying at a higher rate than that of our peers. Could that be why some of us find ourselves turned on by consensual domination, degradation...

Cruising Confessions: Queer Utopia

It’s easy to talk about what we don’t want in the world—hate, discrimination, and violence against our community—but what kind of future DO we want to see? In this episode...

It’s easy to talk about what we don’t want in the world—hate, discrimination, and violence against our community—but what kind of future DO we want to see? In this episode...

Cruising Confessions: Couples Who Cruise Together

Some couples practice “strict” monogamy, while other couples pick up tricks, attend sex parties, and visit cruising spots together. Ain’t love grand? In this episode, Gabe and Chris talk to...

Some couples practice “strict” monogamy, while other couples pick up tricks, attend sex parties, and visit cruising spots together. Ain’t love grand? In this episode, Gabe and Chris talk to...

Cruising Confessions: Side In My DMs

Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the BATEBANDIT XL, the “Messiah of Masturbation”, about...

Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the BATEBANDIT XL, the “Messiah of Masturbation”, about...

Cruising Confessions: Talk Dirty To Me

This week Gabe and Chris explore different types of communication that can help us have hotter and more dynamic sexual experiences. First, our hosts dive into the growing phenomenon of...

This week Gabe and Chris explore different types of communication that can help us have hotter and more dynamic sexual experiences. First, our hosts dive into the growing phenomenon of...

Cruising Confessions: Cruising With Trans Guys

Cruising in person or on the apps is never easy, but trans masculine people often have a more difficult time in both spaces. In this probing episode, Gabe and Chris...

Cruising in person or on the apps is never easy, but trans masculine people often have a more difficult time in both spaces. In this probing episode, Gabe and Chris...

Cruising Confessions: How To Be A Good Boy

Gabe and Chris talk to two radical kinksters–Puppy Trainer Chipper and Leather Boy Donald Shorter, Jr.–about the benefits and risks involved in living their kinkiest lives, and the psychology that...

Gabe and Chris talk to two radical kinksters–Puppy Trainer Chipper and Leather Boy Donald Shorter, Jr.–about the benefits and risks involved in living their kinkiest lives, and the psychology that...

Cruising Confessions: Biohacking in the Bedroom

We’ve all seen online advertisements for pills and procedures promising to enhance your erotic adventures: spunk supplements, bussy botox, recreational ED meds and, yes, penis fillers. But just how effective...

We’ve all seen online advertisements for pills and procedures promising to enhance your erotic adventures: spunk supplements, bussy botox, recreational ED meds and, yes, penis fillers. But just how effective...

Cruising Confessions: Sex Work is Hard Work

Gabe and Chris talk to escort, adult content creator, go-go dancer, and erotic masseuse Xavier Blanco about how he made his childhood Nomi Malone fantasies a reality, and the hard...

Gabe and Chris talk to escort, adult content creator, go-go dancer, and erotic masseuse Xavier Blanco about how he made his childhood Nomi Malone fantasies a reality, and the hard...

Cruising Confessions: DL Dudes, A Reappraisal

Few things provoke judgment in the queer community as much as hooking up with someone closeted does. In this episode, Gabe and Chris offer a reappraisal of the controversial figure...

Few things provoke judgment in the queer community as much as hooking up with someone closeted does. In this episode, Gabe and Chris offer a reappraisal of the controversial figure...

Cruising Confessions: Cruising 101

Cruising 101 We all know Sniffies–and the pandemic–ignited a gay cruising renaissance in cities around the world. But where did cruising begin and how has it changed over time? This...

Cruising 101 We all know Sniffies–and the pandemic–ignited a gay cruising renaissance in cities around the world. But where did cruising begin and how has it changed over time? This...

Cruising Confessions Episode One

How to Plan the Perfect Pump & Dump Think being a c**dump is easy? Think again–there’s a lot involved in planning a successful pump and dump. For our first episode,...

How to Plan the Perfect Pump & Dump Think being a c**dump is easy? Think again–there’s a lot involved in planning a successful pump and dump. For our first episode,...