Have you joined in the cock cage group chats? Across the internet, on Twitter, Reddit, Bluesky, in massive Telegram chats with thousands of caged boys—that is, guys who wear chastity cages on their cocks—are checking in with each other, posting daily cage checks, and trading tips.
They post pictures at work, at the gym, at a park showing off their cages. They chat endlessly on discord servers. According to Maxon Caged, who’s been wearing a cock cage for 617 consecutive days, finding communities like this is a huge part of successfully caging your cock. “Doing it all by yourself is really hard,” he says.
That’s because chastity and cock cages aren’t as simple as buying a cage off amazon and popping it on your dick. In fact, Maxon says, picking the right cage is one of the most important choices a caged boy can make. First, find a cage with the right finish to make sure it’ll stay clean. “You want something that is smooth,” Maxon says, “and ideally coated in a way that doesn't absorb, like liquids or odors or bacteria.”
Next, you’re gonna want to find the right fit. Too small, and your dick is uncomfortable all day. Too loose and you can run into chafing issues. Find the right size for you and invest in quality. “You can get cheap cages off of Amazon for $25,” Maxon says, “but they might break on you.” He recommends KINK3D, which “revolutionized the chastity cage game.”
If you’re unsure about sizing, he says, they’ll measure you at one of the booths they set up at kink-centric events like the Folsom Street Fair. On the other hand, if you’re looking to drop a couple grand, Maxon says, check out SteelWerks, where you can easily spend thousands on a custom piece.
“A $2,000 cock cage for sex where you don’t even cum?” you might be asking yourself. But caged boys get there, don’t you worry. “Some people are caged, but still cum a lot,” Maxon says. You can use a vibrator on your cage to cum if you really want (though, arguably that defeats the purpose of wearing it), but Maxon says caging recentered the way he felt pleasure.
“It allows me to focus all of my sexual energy and attention onto what I consider to be my primary sex organ,” he says, “which is my hole.” He’s cummed from getting fucked without touching his dick, and he also often has anal orgasms. “I've really rewired my hole to be way more sensitive,” he says. “it just feels way better.”
Chastity cages are about submission. When you’re wearing a cage, Maxon says, “your purpose is now just to be a hole for someone.” There are caged tops and caged doms out there too, but by and large, guys wearing chastity cages are hoping for an extreme sub scene . However you want to enjoy chastity, Maxon has a few tips for first timers: Find a cage that fits, keep it clean and lubricated (he uses fractionated coconut oil), and find a keyholder who understands the responsibility of holding the key to your cage.
The best part of chastity, Maxon says, is that it’s your secret. “I love chastity because it's one of those kinks that you can do, 24/7, anywhere and everywhere,” he says. “No one knows that I’m caged right now. No one knows that I have a load in my ass either."
Want more? Of course you do—check out our Locked and Loving It episode from Season 2 of Sniffies' Cruising Confessions:
Images above courtesy of KINK3D
