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Episode 6: Cruising 301
11.20.25
The first time Alex Espinoza got cruised, he felt as if a “mutant power” had been awakened inside him. This new internal radar helped him find secret sex spaces where he uncovered another hidden strength: his dick gave him power over men who might have otherwise rejected a queer Latino man with a disability. Using his special gifts, Alex was able to build his self-confidence and dispel the feelings of shame he says are common for queer people from immigrant families. It also gave him plenty of material for his hit 2019 book “Cruising: An Intimate HIstory of a Radical Pastime”. In this episode, Alex teaches Gabe, Chris, and our listeners what he’s learned from a lifetime of cruising, and offers practical tips for queer cruisers of color and queer cruisers with disabilities. School is now in session. It’s time for CRUISING 301.
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A Bottom's Guide to the Holiday
11.26.25
Holiday foods can wreck your gut, and your bottoming plans. Registered Dietitian Kevin Klatt shares fiber hacks, smarter swaps, and routine tips to stay confident, regular, and ready all season long.
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The Bush is Back
11.12.25
The bush has gone from taboo to trend. After decades of trimming, waxing, and “manscaping,” everyone is now growing out their bushes. What began as a symbol of 1970s sexual freedom is reemerging in 2020s queer culture as a marker of honesty, confidence, and a rejection of the overly polished digital ideal.
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Anon hookups are a specific fetish unto themselves, but hiding your identity with a mask allows you to step outside of yourself—to experiment and chase your curiosity in a way you might otherwise be afraid to. That anonymity erases who you are, but for some people, it’s about sublimating yourself even further.
